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Ak chcete <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/chcete-byt-dobrym-rodicom-vybudujte-si-doverny-vztah\/\" class=\"btn btn-link continue-link\">Pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165<\/a>","datePublished":"2018-10-03","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e7b590144558ebad68292226b8af0772e2d53ba82fa105c348ae9b5254e51a11?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e7b590144558ebad68292226b8af0772e2d53ba82fa105c348ae9b5254e51a11?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sekacik.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294339_w16680_t1543854666.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294339_w16680_t1543854666.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/chcete-byt-dobrym-rodicom-vybudujte-si-doverny-vztah\/","about":["Deti\r"],"wordCount":438,"articleBody":"D\u00f4vera je z\u00e1kladn\u00fdm, stavebn\u00fdm kame\u0148om ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu. V pr\u00edpade rodi\u010dov a det\u00ed, v\u0161ak hovor\u00edme o tej najcennej\u0161ej veci, ktor\u00fa m\u00f4\u017eete medzi sebou ma\u0165. Ak chcete aby k v\u00e1m boli va\u0161e deti \u00faprimn\u00e9, zapracova\u0165 na tom m\u00f4\u017eete iba vy.  Je logick\u00e9, \u017ee ak na\u0161e die\u0165a vyvedie nie\u010do zl\u00e9, roz\u010d\u00falime sa. Naj\u010dastej\u0161ie nasleduje krik, h\u00e1dky a trest. Viete \u010do takouto v\u00fdchovou dosiahnete? Len jednu jedin\u00fa vec, a to, \u017ee v\u00e1m va\u0161e die\u0165a u\u017e nikdy v \u017eivote ni\u010d neprezrad\u00ed. A to predsa nechcete. Pok\u00faste sa by\u0165 v tak\u00fdto situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch dospel\u00ed. Povedzme si \u00faprimne, kto z n\u00e1s v detstve nerobil svojim rodi\u010dom vr\u00e1sky na \u010dele. Ak v\u0161ak budete schopn\u00ed reagova\u0165 pokojne a dan\u00fd probl\u00e9m rozobra\u0165, verte \u017ee nabud\u00face nebudete musie\u0165 zo svojho die\u0165a\u0165a inform\u00e1cie \u0165aha\u0165 ako z chlpatej deky. Ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d t\u00fa\u017ei po tom, aby sa die\u0165a so svojimi probl\u00e9mami v\u017edy obr\u00e1tilo na neho. Mysl\u00edte si v\u0161ak, \u017ee ak sa napr\u00edklad va\u0161a dc\u00e9ra s vami pr\u00edde porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 o chlapcovi, ktor\u00fd sa jej p\u00e1\u010di a vy jej vynad\u00e1te, \u017ee m\u00e1 na tak\u00e9to veci \u010das, \u017ee pr\u00edde e\u0161te raz? Samozrejme z\u00e1vis\u00ed to aj od povahy die\u0165a\u0165a, av\u0161ak pravdepodobnej\u0161ie je, \u017ee sa nabud\u00face zd\u00f4ver\u00ed svojej kamar\u00e1tke, ktor\u00e1 jej nemus\u00ed v\u017edy da\u0165 tie najlep\u0161ie rady. Z\u00e1klady vz\u00e1jomnej d\u00f4very by sme mali za\u010da\u0165 budova\u0165 u\u017e v tom naj\u00fatlej\u0161om veku. Ak to pokaz\u00edte vtedy, v bud\u00facnosti sa v\u00e1m t\u00e1to chyba bude len ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017eko napr\u00e1va\u0165. U\u017e od mali\u010dka, by ste sa mali s de\u0165mi rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 o v\u0161etkom \u010do naj\u00faprimnej\u0161ie. Ak sa po prv\u00fd kr\u00e1t objavia ot\u00e1zky t\u00fdkaj\u00face sa nahoty, sexu\u00e1lneho dospievania, prv\u00fdch l\u00e1sok, alebo in\u00e9 ch\u00falostiv\u00e9 t\u00e9my, nikdy svoje die\u0165a nezahriaknite a nezahovorte dan\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu debatou o bocianoch, v\u010deli\u010dk\u00e1ch a in\u00fd hl\u00fapostiach. Je ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 aby deti pochopili, \u017ee tieto t\u00e9my nie s\u00fa zl\u00e9 a nemusia sa o nich b\u00e1\u0165 hovori\u0165.  Najm\u00e4 v obdob\u00ed dospievania, ur\u010dite tento d\u00f4vern\u00fd vz\u0165ah neraz ocen\u00edte. Ak u\u017e va\u0161a ratoles\u0165 aj vyvedie nie\u010do zl\u00e9, verte \u017ee je v\u017edy lep\u0161ie ak sa o tom dozviete ako prv\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (3 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Chcete by\u0165 dobr\u00fdm rodi\u010dom? Vybudujte si d\u00f4vern\u00fd vz\u0165ah.","item":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/chcete-byt-dobrym-rodicom-vybudujte-si-doverny-vztah\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]