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Je to v\u0161ak chyba, ke\u010f\u017ee Pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165<\/a>","datePublished":"2019-08-09","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e7b590144558ebad68292226b8af0772e2d53ba82fa105c348ae9b5254e51a11?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e7b590144558ebad68292226b8af0772e2d53ba82fa105c348ae9b5254e51a11?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sekacik.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a304846_w16680_t1566227291.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a304846_w16680_t1566227291.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/generacne-rozdiely-v-rodine\/","about":["Deti\r"],"wordCount":561,"articleBody":"Pochopenie Niektor\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky det\u00ed m\u00f4\u017eu pripom\u00edna\u0165 z\u00e1\u017eitky z mladosti ich rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00ed sa to sna\u017eia prep\u00e1ja\u0165 a d\u00e1va\u0165 ako pr\u00edklad. Je to v\u0161ak chyba, ke\u010f\u017ee rodi\u010d d\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou radu, ako to spravil on. Bohu\u017eia\u013e, je to u\u017e p\u00e1r rokov star\u00e1 z\u00e1le\u017eitos\u0165 a preto to u\u017e v dne\u0161nej dobe nemus\u00ed plati\u0165 a to, \u010do urobil v danej situ\u00e1cii rodi\u010d, nemus\u00ed pom\u00f4c\u0165 die\u0165a\u0165u. Menia sa \u010dasy a aj postoje – dokonca aj krat\u0161ia doba, napr\u00edklad 5 rokov, ovplyvn\u00ed prostredie, \u0161kolsk\u00fd syst\u00e9m \u010di in\u00e9 aspekty okolia. A hlavne, v\u00e1\u0161 syn \u010di va\u0161a dc\u00e9ra, nie s\u00fa vami. Nebu\u010fte vz\u0165ahova\u010dn\u00ed, sna\u017ete sa die\u0165a po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a ch\u00e1pa\u0165. Obujte si ich top\u00e1nky, po\u010d\u00favajte, sna\u017ete sa predstavi\u0165 si ich situ\u00e1ciu, v\u017eite sa do nej. Rozpr\u00e1vajte sa s nimi a hlavne – ve\u013ea sa p\u00fdtajte. A rozhodne mu nevynadajte alebo nie\u010do nezak\u00e1\u017ete, ak to neurobilo pod\u013ea v\u00e1s. Preru\u0161ovanie Ob\u010das nastane situ\u00e1cia, kedy va\u0161e die\u0165a potrebuje vypusti\u0165 paru. Nechajte ho. Ak ho preru\u0161\u00edte, bude nesk\u00f4r potrebova\u0165 viac motiv\u00e1cie a m\u00f4\u017ee sa spr\u00e1va\u0165 iracion\u00e1lne. Ak m\u00e1 va\u0161e die\u0165a z\u00e1chvat hnevu a potrebuje sa vykri\u010da\u0165 \u010di vyplaka\u0165, nechajte ho, k\u00fdm sa neupokoj\u00ed. Boj S\u00fa chv\u00edle, kedy va\u0161e die\u0165a bude chcie\u0165 nie\u010do urobi\u0165 ist\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee znepokojova\u0165 alebo rozru\u0161i\u0165. M\u00e1te dve mo\u017enosti – m\u00f4\u017eete bojova\u0165 o zmenu rozhodnutia \u010di konania v\u00e1\u0161ho die\u0165a\u0165a alebo zmeni\u0165 situ\u00e1ciu. Druhou mo\u017enos\u0165ou je necha\u0165 ich, aby to urobili pod\u013ea seba a d\u00fafa\u0165, \u017ee die\u0165a z\u00edska nieko\u013eko \u017eivotn\u00fdch lekci\u00ed. Mus\u00edte sa nau\u010di\u0165, kedy s n\u00edm bojova\u0165 a kedy ho necha\u0165 tak. Ak urob\u00edte pr\u00edli\u0161 ve\u013ek\u00fd n\u00e1tlak \u010di dohovor, m\u00f4\u017ee to vies\u0165 ku katastrofe vo va\u0161om vz\u0165ahu. Ak sa budete stara\u0165 pr\u00edli\u0161, va\u0161e die\u0165a si bude myslie\u0165, \u017ee je neschopn\u00e9, ak m\u00e1lo, nebude ma\u0165 hranice. Je potrebn\u00e9 n\u00e1js\u0165 spr\u00e1vnu rovnov\u00e1hu. N\u00e1znaky Ka\u017ed\u00e9 die\u0165a dlhodobo h\u00e1d\u017ee nen\u00e1padn\u00e9 n\u00e1znaky a vy mus\u00edte by\u0165 dostato\u010dne v\u0161\u00edmav\u00fd na to, aby ste ich zaregistrovali. Nebude to jednoduch\u00e9, ke\u010f\u017ee ich nazna\u010dovanie bude e\u0161te detsk\u00e9, va\u0161ou \u00falohou v\u0161ak bude zisti\u0165, \u010do a pre\u010do sa im to nep\u00e1\u010di. V\u0161\u00edmajte si veci na nich, ale aj v ich izbe – m\u00f4\u017ee to by\u0165 znepokojuj\u00face, ale st\u00e1le ste rodi\u010d a mus\u00edte ich chr\u00e1ni\u0165. Die\u0165a m\u00f4\u017ee napr\u00edklad necha\u0165 krabi\u010dku cigariet vo\u013ene pohoden\u00fa na stole naschv\u00e1l, aby ste ju na\u0161li – nekri\u010dte na nich, sk\u00faste zisti\u0165, pre\u010do to urobili. Netla\u010dte Zvl\u00e1dnutie genera\u010dnej priepasti nie je o tom, aby ste boli so svojimi de\u0165mi najlep\u0161\u00ed priatelia, ani o tom, aby ste boli rodi\u010dom roka. Ide o to, aby ste si vybudovali vz\u0165ah, ktor\u00fd bude otvoren\u00fd a \u010destn\u00fd, v ktorom ich budete vies\u0165 k r\u00f4znym veciam v \u017eivote a nie ich do nich n\u00fati\u0165. 2\/5 - (1 vote) "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Genera\u010dn\u00e9 rozdiely v rodine","item":"https:\/\/www.sekacik.sk\/generacne-rozdiely-v-rodine\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]